How to Reclaim your Life after Childhood Sexual Abuse

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What do you remember about your childhood?  Do you have happy memories?  Did you feel loved, secure, protected and innocent?   For many adults, their memories and experiences of their childhood are very different, and these experiences can have a long-lasting effect for the rest of their lives.   According to the Australian Bureau of…

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9 Tips for Dealing with Stress and Anxiety

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Many of us are juggling work, family and other commitments every day, so it’s no wonder so many people are feeling stressed and anxious.  I know it can be difficult, but it can be so beneficial for both your physical and mental health to slow down and try to set time aside for yourself each…

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How to look after your mental health at Christmas

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It has been an “annus horribilis” year and with Christmas now upon us, there are more challenges and emotions to deal with.  While many people enjoy this time of year, for many it brings more pressure on our time and money, while others experience loneliness and grief.  This time of year is proven to increase…

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Menopause and Mental Health

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As women, and as a society in general, we openly talk about breast cancer, ovarian cancer, and even periods, but how often do you see menopause spoken about in the media, day to day conversations, and on social media? Even in 2020, menopause still seems to be a taboo subject. Surely, we’ve moved on from…

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Do you suffer from the “disease to please”?

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Are you a people pleaser? Do you always do what someone asks of you, even if it makes you uncomfortable or wastes your time?   If this sounds like you, then you could be suffering from what is sometimes referred to as the “disease to please“, meaning you frequently say ‘yes’ to people when in…

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The 5 Senses Guide to Practicing Mindfulness

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Whether you’re feeling uneasy about world events, you’re busy running around after everyone else, or you’re stressed about finances, relationships or work, there is one age-old practice you can introduce to your day to help you find some calm and collect your thoughts. One of the best ways to relax into the present moment is…

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Opportunity in change: how to make the most of disruption

Opportunity in change: how to make the most of disruption

In times of disruption, turmoil and chaos, it’s hard to accept that change can be as good as a holiday and that variety is the spice of life. Now more than ever with the current COVID-19 health scares and economic instability, I know many people are feeling unsure, frightened and angry at the change that…

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Why we should place more importance on stress

Stress

I’m not sure when or where this concept of stress being a by-product of our busy lives started. It’s almost as though some people wear it as a badge of honour.   “I’m stressed, which means life is busy; if life is busy, I must be successful. If I’m successful, I must be happy.”  …

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Improving low self-esteem for a better work and home life

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How you think and feel about yourself impacts on your actions and behaviours every minute of every day. Negative self-talk can affect our relationships, our job and our day to day life.  In today’s busy society where there is a constant pressure to do well, or to keep up with social media trends (fashion, home…

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