New Years’ celebrations may have seemed like ages ago now but the reality is, it’s been less than four weeks since we saw in 2019. It’s natural that as the year unfolds and our daily commitments and pressures start to settle back in after some time off, the twinkle in your eye that was there…

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Christmas bauble

Not all Christmases are merry and bright – here’s why it’s normal to feel this and how to survive the festive season guilt-free If Christmas is giving you heart palpitations, a pit in your stomach or bringing tears to your eyes, I want you to know one thing: you are not alone, and this is…

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Love languages

Do you know your partner’s love language? Do you sometimes feel like you show more affection toward your partner than they do for you? Does your partner shower you in flowers and gifts after an argument, but all you want is a verbal “sorry” from them? While love is universal, we all feel and express…

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Christmas

Christmas is the season to be jolly apparently – definitely the most awaited and celebrated season all year. Unfortunately for some, this time of the year also brings stress, pressure, and worse, depression due to a whole host of reasons. There is a cultural drive towards excessive spending during this season and many of us…

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Couple's counselling

I’m not sure whether it’s the portrayal in popular culture or if it’s our own ego that gets bruised, but the stigma I see attached to couple’s counselling worries me.   Every relationship can benefit from counselling, not just those that are on the brink of collapsing. Through couple’s counselling, it is my role to…

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guilt-health-women

How guilt is formed and why you need to get rid of it now There is feeling guilty about eating the last Tim Tam while your significant other is out of the room, then there’s feeling guilty about major incidents that may or may not have been influenced by you.   Guilt in minor cases…

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sexual healing

How to regain intimacy after sexual abuse There’s no relationship more personal than the one we have with our bodies, and even more intimate, is our sexuality. Sexuality defines our desires and attraction to others and impacts our thoughts, emotions and behaviours in relation to sexual activity. It is shaped and carved out over many…

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work related stress

One in five Australians take time off work because they feel stressed, anxious, depressed or mentally unhealthy When you consider what the general working environment is – bringing a group of strangers together, giving them a task to be responsible for, assigning a hierarchy, and keeping them unified toward a common goal over the course…

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Happy New Year

Is 2018 going to be a new chapter in your life or just the same old story?  You are the only one who can write the story of your life.  If you want to write your new story, you need to start by setting goals.    Boring I know, but without goals you lack focus…

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Childhood Sexual Abuse

Childhood Sexual Abuse Abuse is defined as the physical, sexual, verbal, or emotional mistreatment of a person. Childhood sexual abuse or incest is an abuse that society does not like to talk about; therefore, survivors of sexual abuse may find it extremely difficult to talk about and also how to deal with the effects of…

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